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Dear Regina,
Senior year has been crazy already. AP classes, stressing over the thought of starting college applications, the stress of not starting college applications.  I haven’t had a single moment where I can just sit and relax. I’ve been dating this guy for a few months and every weekday I have homework and extracurriculars, every weekend I have work and more homework.  I feel guilty that my boyfriend is making a noticeable effort to see me whenever he can, and I haven’t. I guess partly this is because of my parents and their strict attitudes towards making sure I am on top of my grades.  Small breaks in studying or going out on nights that I don’t have excessive amounts of homework don’t hinder my performance at school, though. It’s frustrating and upsetting that my senior year is proving to be the hardest and will result in me sitting in my room working on homework or studying for a test rather than spending time enjoying my last year in high school.  Maybe I just need help balancing everything, I don’t know. Do you have any advice?

Sincerely,

Clairemont Senior

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Dear Clairemont Senior,

I am so sorry your senior year has been so rough. Hopefully, things will calm down with a little more time once college applications or through. As for your boyfriend, if he truly cares about you, he would understand that school is important to you and you are trying to focus on that right now. Having strict parents can be tough but I’m sure it comes out of a place of love and they just want success for your future. I think the best thing to do is to sit down and talk with your boyfriend about your time and why you have been a little distant. Also, to speak with your parents explaining to them that you are stressed and need to set aside time to relax.

I hope things get better and you get into your top schools.

xoxo~Regina Falange

6 Comments

6 Responses to “Dear Regina Falange”

  1. Clairemont Senior on December 19th, 2018 12:46 PM

    I hope things get better with your family, boyfriend, and senior year.

  2. Lorena Gutierrez on December 19th, 2018 12:46 PM

    As a senior I understand your issues because like same girl.

  3. Nallely on December 19th, 2018 12:47 PM

    sis I get you. I totally understand what you’re going through. I hope everything gets better soon.

  4. Lance Madriaga on December 19th, 2018 12:48 PM

    As young seniors we have to understand that things can be stressful and hard when it comes to school and relationships. I feel that if you truly care for someone they will be willing to be there and support you through the hard times of school. Remember that we are still young and we have a lot of time in life. Just make the best of it.

  5. Sandy Mach on December 19th, 2018 12:51 PM

    Good advice! I hope everything goes well with their relationship and her studies.

  6. Paola Ayala on December 19th, 2018 12:53 PM

    I can relate to this story, the fact your parents are very strict and you can’t do whatever you want is very stressful, but this is totally not your fault. As a senior I can relate the struggles since is our last year and we want our transcripts to be perfect we spend all this time to do homework, extracurricular and some of us have to work. If your boyfriend keeps fighting, it will be a healthy relationship, but if he starts losing interest on the relationship because you don’t have enough time for him, it might not be a healthy one.

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